When our bride came to us to plan her wedding, she originally wanted a classic white wedding. She showed me a gorgeous white arch by Eric at Dolce Fiori which became the catalyst for our design. As she began to study my work she recognized the beauty in a non-traditional wedding. In face

Elegant white lace wedding dress hanging in preparation for the bride, showcasing intricate bridal gown details. Expertly curated by Center of Attention Events.

Detailed close-up of intricate lace on a white wedding dress, highlighting the fine craftsmanship of the bridal gown. Custom event design by Center of Attention Events.

Top-down view of silver wedding shoes, two elegant wedding rings, a sparkling silver tiara, and a delicate silver branch brooch, essential bridal accessories. Styled by Center of Attention Events.

White lace wedding dress with veil draped over a chair, accompanied by a deep red rose and vibrant red flower arrangement, perfect bridal ensemble. Designed by Center of Attention Events

Close-up of groom's black suit lapel with a striking red flower boutonniere, sophisticated groom attire. Arranged by Center of Attention Events.

Detailed view of the groom's stylish black spikey dress shoes, essential wedding footwear. Curated by Center of Attention Events.

Groom and groomsmen in full black suits with red boutonnieres, ready for the wedding ceremony, classic groom and groomsmen attire. Coordinated by Center of Attention Events.

Bride and bridesmaids celebrating with rose champagne, cheering in excitement, joyful wedding party moment. Orchestrated by Center of Attention Events.

1. Embrace and Celebrate Unique Styles

Incorporating Elements from Both Tastes

When planning a wedding that reflects two distinct styles, it's essential to embrace and celebrate each partner's preferences. Integrate meaningful elements and symbols from each style into the ceremony and reception. This not only honors each partner's individuality but also creates a rich, unique experience for guests.

Closeup of the stunning rose ceremony arch with vibrant red roses against a clear blue sky. Custom event design by Center of Attention Events.

Breathtaking view of the iconic Hollywood Hills from the wedding venue, offering a picturesque backdrop. Expertly curated by Center of Attention Events.

Detailed closeup of the red roses on the custom ceremony arch, showcasing intricate floral design. Arranged by Center of Attention Events

Elegant red crystal chandelier lit and hanging from a viney trellis, adding a touch of glamour to the wedding decor. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

2. Find Common Ground in Shared Interests

Blending Personal Interests and Hobbies

Identify shared interests and hobbies that can serve as a unifying theme for the wedding. Whether it's a mutual love for a particular type of music, a favorite book or movie, or a passion for travel, finding common ground helps create a cohesive and personalized wedding theme that resonates with both partners.

Top-down view of the cocktail area courtyard, illuminated by string lights and featuring a black and white chess board. Custom event design by Center of Attention Events.

Custom black wall with Champagne in gold, elegantly displaying rows of champagne flutes. Styled by Center of Attention Events.

Large black and white chess set in the cocktail area, providing a unique and stylish touch. Curated by Center of Attention Events.

Shrub wall adorned with gold baroque picture frames displaying the couple's photos, including Venice Beach and hot-rod muscle car engagement shots. Curated by Center of Attention Events.

Thank you signing table featuring a black movie director theme, providing a unique and stylish touch. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

Sleek seating arrangement with laser-cut custom acrylic cards displaying table seating names, forming a muscle car engagement photo. Styled by Center of Attention Events.

3. Design with Duality in Mind

Creating a Cohesive Aesthetic

Balance the aesthetic elements by blending colors, styles, and décor that reflect both tastes. For example, if one partner loves modern elegance and the other prefers rustic charm, find ways to incorporate elements of both into the design. This could mean pairing sleek, contemporary table settings with rustic floral arrangements or combining minimalist invitations with handcrafted details.

Groom and groomsmen standing at the altar during a rooftop Hollywood ceremony, set against the iconic skyline. Coordinated by Center of Attention Events.

Mom, dad, and bride walking down the ceremony aisle in black and red attire, with the bride in a white dress. Styled by Center of Attention Events.

Bridesmaids in elegant red dresses, holding vibrant red flower bouquets, adding a pop of color to the wedding theme. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

Groom's and bride's parties under a gothic black tent with black, white, and red crystal chandeliers, complemented by hanging red roses and a black and gold art-deco dance floor. Curated by Center of Attention Events.

Aerial view capturing the bride and groom walking away from the altar, offering a picturesque scene of the wedding ceremony. Planned by Center of Attention Events.

Low-angle shot of the bride and groom about to share their first kiss, taken from down the aisle. Captured moment curated by Center of Attention Events.

Closeup of the romantic rose arch as the bride and groom lean in for a kiss, highlighting the floral design. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

4. Compromise and Collaborate

Navigating Differences with Grace

Successful wedding planning involves compromise and collaboration. Engage in open and honest conversations about each partner's vision and be willing to make adjustments. Embrace the "Yes, and" approach, a concept borrowed from improv comedy, which encourages acceptance and building upon each other's ideas. Rather than saying "no" or "but," use "yes, and" to validate your partner's suggestions and find creative ways to incorporate both visions. Consider hiring a professional wedding planner like those on our team at Center of Attention Events who specializes in eclectic weddings to help navigate and blend diverse elements seamlessly.

Elegant canvas tent space with banquet tables, black and gold cushioned chairs, and dining tables for the reception, featuring the bride and groom posing on the dance floor. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

Romantic moment of the bride placing her hands over the groom's shoulders in the beautifully decorated canvas tent space. Coordinated by Center of Attention Events.

Intimate shot of the bride and groom gazing into each other's eyes in the stylish reception area with black and gold decor. Curated by Center of Attention Events.

Emotional father-daughter dance set in the darkened, atmospheric reception area with gothic and art-deco elements. Planned by Center of Attention Events.

Heartwarming closeup of the groom dancing with his mother beneath the hanging roses in the gothic-inspired reception area. Styled by Center of Attention Events.

Bride and groom cutting a lacey black and white tiered wedding cake, set in the elegantly decorated reception space. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

Bride and groom feeding each other a slice of the black and white tiered wedding cake, captured in the stylish reception setting. Coordinated by Center of Attention Events.

Joyful moment of the bride and groom smiling after feeding each other cake, set in the elegant reception area. Planned by Center of Attention Events.

5. Personalize Every Detail

Making the Wedding Truly Your Own

Ensure that every detail of the wedding reflects the couple's unique journey and story. Personalize elements such as the vows, the menu, and the music to highlight the individuality and unity of the couple. Incorporating personal anecdotes, family heirlooms, and bespoke touches can make the wedding day profoundly meaningful and memorable.

Close-up of a massive custom rose flower arrangement, showcasing intricate floral design. Created by Center of Attention Events.

Closeup of custom engraved acrylic cards in antler card holders, displaying elegant table seating names. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

Banquet tables in the black canvas tent, featuring tall black candles and black chalices, creating a dramatic and stylish atmosphere. Styled by Center of Attention Events.

Closeup of hanging roses raining from the tent-top, adding a romantic and unique touch to the decor. Designed by Center of Attention Events.

Close-up of the white and black iron/crystal chandelier in the tent, highlighting its elegant and gothic design. Curated by Center of Attention Events.

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